Part 1:
Communicating with each other was actually a lot simpler, because at least one of us were allowed to communicate. While I was making gestures and nodding or shaking my head, they would guess what I was talking about, albeit simple subject, based off of whether or not I agreed or not. It basically became a game of charades where they were free to speak as much as they'd like and I would simply go yes or no.
However, in terms of power, it felt... one sided, but also the answer to this isn't as black and white as one may thing. Sure the person who was able to be verbal may be the obvious choice here, but the entire time, me, with my lack of verbal speech steered the conversation, chose the subjects, controlled what I made the verbal speaker talk about all because I cannot communicate with them. I was in power of the conversation, despite my lack of speech.
Well, in terms of communicating complex subjects and cultures to the other person, I personally thing that the person with the ability to speak has much more power in that case. The reason being is that the abilities I have without verbal communication...they also have the same ability to do so, so they're able to do everything I can, however they can do even more due to their verbal speech. It allows them to have detailed instruction in their own language about how something works, and the only issue would be translating it. And with time and effort.. language is translatable.
Part 2:
So what made this difficult, was the lack of vocal intonation. The way we solved the lack of body language, head movement, etc etc, was that we would talk to each other without seeing the other person. Aka like talking on the phone, and probably before the invention of written language and telephones this may have been difficult. However, having trained throughout our lives to learn how to communicate to people with the lack of everything but their voice, made it much easier to do this portion and we were able to have a solid conversation. Of course, it was boring because the lack of intonation made us sound bored and monotone, however, despite that it was not that difficult at all.
My partner in this situation felt the same as me, because we usually do this because we don't have time to talk to each other in person, so most of our conversations are via telephone call. The biggest issue for them was also vocal intonation. It was important for them to know the "highs" and "lows" of the words I was says as they put it, because it determined the emotional meaning behind the words I spoke. Without it, they said it felt like talking to a pre recording message.
This experiment shows that signs are definitely extremely important in communicating certain things in a conversations. The emotional capacity people have is determined in what we allow to show others, so the lack of "sign" makes this difficult and will force people to retract from the conversation and disengage. However, not every single "sign" isn't important as long as one is present it makes the conversation engaging and lets the other be able to express themselves. Because, not everyone speaks with intonations, not everyone can use facial expressions well, not everyone uses as many hand gestures, etc etc. However, not everyone lacks every single thing. So, as long as something is there it should be fine.
There are definitely people who cannot read body language, and those are usually people who "cannot read the room". There is nothing wrong with them, however they will struggle to find the right words to say, or not understand why everyone is acting one way but saying another. A setting where it may be beneficial to not reading body language is definitely a game of poker. Well, it's both beneficial and not beneficial depending on who you are. As a player, you may want to read body language in order to tell if someone is bluffing, or has a good set, however on the other hand you yourself don't want to express body language at all in order to not give yourself away. Or people watching from the outside in, they may be intrigued by the lack of body language as it is something that requires lots of control to do so and makes the game interesting to watch.
Part 3:
Written language would've been immensely helpful, because in this day and age, we use written language more than we may even use spoken language, We have learned to communicate complex themes subjects, and emotions through written language and symbols. Written language would make things much more easier, as the way I express my emotions through written language changes drastically depending on where, what and who I'm typing to. It requires a lot of "signs" like we would use in physical language, but in terms of emoticons, or the way I type, or the number of !, ?, or " I use and so on. I can describe that I'm sleepy by simply saying, "Oh no.... I'm so sleepy....goodniiiiiight" It gives off this idea that I'm trailing off, that I can only speak so little words as if I'm about to pass out. All through text.
Written language provides a lot more use as it allows you to write as much as you'd like and perfect what you will say before sending it out the the person who may receive it. Receiving something in the mail? Well you better know that the person writing to you had probably rewritten it multiple times making sure it was perfect and that they had not missed anything. It lets them take their time to think and use words they would never think on the top of their head to describe something. As long as both parties have experienced similar lives in order to understand the words they use to describe written language is much more better.
Written language influences a lot more people in the worlds because of how easily accessible it is. Written language can be translated, understood through symbols, use of periods and exclamations and whatever. But the most important thing, is that once it was written down it may be reproduces tens, of hundreds, of thousands of times for everyone to be able to read and spread. As for vocal language, you must repeat yourself which you your have a capacity for any may even miss a few things from your original speech, or you may rely on others to retell your words through words of mouth, however they may misremember your speech or cut it short and the context may be construed. It is like the rules of fourths. The farther it goes, the more lost the original content gets and the hazier it gets, however with written language it may be replicated perfectly everytime.
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ReplyDeletePart 1: Good opening description.
"but the entire time, me, with my lack of verbal speech steered the conversation, chose the subjects, controlled what I made the verbal speaker talk about all because I cannot communicate with them."
How did you do that? How did you choose subjects without being able to speak? Did you really control what the speaker talked about? Couldn't they change topics at will? Couldn't they just decide to walk away and not take part in the conversation?
Your first impulse was accurate. You should have had the distinct impression of disempowerment resulting from your inability to speak, with all (or at least most) of the power lying with your partner and his ability to use all aspects of his communication abilities.
For the third prompt, I generally agree with you but this is specifically talking about communicating *complex ideas*, not just communicating in general. Back up and understand what "complex ideas" actually are. Would you be able to explain Darwin's theory of natural selection or Einstein's theory of relativity without symbolic language? I don't think I could. If body language was better at communicating these complex ideas, we wouldn't need spoken symbolic language. Because symbolic language is pervasive in all cultures, that tells us that it is advantageous in communication, particularly with concepts that are just ideas and not things to demonstrate and show.
Missing an answer to the last question? Can you think of a real life example that mirrors the power differential exhibited in this experiment?
Part 2: So, I'm concerned by your description here... only YOU were supposed to be limited in your ability to speak here. Your partner was supposed to speak normally and only have to focus on what it was like to communicate with a person not using body language. If you were BOTH limited, this will likely mislead you in your conclusions. If you also had this issue for Part 1, then it might explain why you came away with misconceptions on the issue of power.
There is a LOT more to the benefits of body language! Let's dig a bit deeper here. What about the ability to figure out if you can trust someone? Or determine if a person is attracted to you? Or is angry with you (and a possible threat)? Or what about if a person is lying to you? Humans tend to use body language as a type of lie detector. If spoken words don't match with the body language, we are more inclined to believe the body language and doubt the words. Think about how being able to detect liars might help an individual's ability to survive and reproduce.
"There is nothing wrong with them..."
Like all human traits, there is normal variation in expression, and the ability to read body language is no different. But beyond that, there are groups of people who have great difficulty or an outright inability to read body language due to physical or mental disability, such as those who are in the autism spectrum or those who are blind (though they can read vocal intonation).
The last question is specifically about not *reading* body language, not about expressing it. In a game of poker, I would definitely not want to give up the ability read body language. But is there any situation you can think of where body language might actually mislead you, not because the person is lying but because you don't know how to read the body language? Do all cultures use the same system of body language? They all use different systems of spoken/written language, so why would we assume their body language isn't different? If you travel to another country, can you trust the information you get from their body language?
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Part 3: Good opening discussion.
In your second section, you are considering this from the perspective of the individual, but the question is taking the perspective of the *cultural* benefits. So let's take another look here: Think of how fast information can be spread in this day and age of the internet which, involves a lot of the written word (along with video and audio). It also has an impact on the education of a population, allowing large groups to receive the identical piece of written information, as opposed to spoken, which can be vary in it's presentation over several deliveries and is subject to misinterpretation more readily. You can also record history and events for future generations to remember and learn from.
Good discussion in the last section, but you only really discuss positive impacts. Are there any potential negative ones? Written language allows information to spread globally at a rapid pace. But that is both good information and bad, true information and false. Correct?
Hi Angel,
ReplyDeleteI think it is very interesting how you mention how you had power with the conversation in Part One because it was the opposite for me. I also think your example of poker is interesting because I never considered that so that is a interesting way to look at it.